tHe diLeMma...

tHe pRobLeM wiTh mEn iS...

Men are not really vocal and expressive of what they truly feel towards a person. They don't say what they truly feel but instead they even deny it and won't accept the fact that they truly feel something towards a person. I even experienced it myself and it really hurts but anyway that was the past and let's not bring the past back anymore. (hehehe..) Men are also sometimes vain. It's not bad to fix yourself but at least not over do it right? Sometimes, I see men so conscious with what they wear, how they look. They even look at the mirror more often than girls do! And for me, that's disgusting. It seems like their not confident with themselves and that's not good, is it? Men don't consider the feelings of other people. In fact eventhough if they know that the person is already hurt, they still continue what they are doing because they think it feels good to have fun with other people. Men also love to hurt people physically. That's very true according to my own experience. They really love to punch, pinch, and do wrestling especially to their close friends. But sometimes I find it bad because that sometimes result to real fighting and fighting is bad, right? They always love to tease people especially the girls. I don't really know what's with that but I think it's also not right to tease other people because they don't know that deep inside they are already been hurting the feelings of that person they are teasing. Another thing that disgusts me about men is that they are more talkative than girls. According to a book that I read a year ago, men talks a lot more than girls do. Isn't that disgusting? But it doesn't mean that men couldn't be trusted anymore because I also know a lot of guys who could keep secrets too. Men are so careless with their things. I even find my guy classmates' things scattered in the floor. That's why they always lose something. They don't take care of their own things, how much more to other people's things? Men are sometimes irresponsible because they could not manage to be responsible of some important things. I won't really elaborate with this because it's already self explanatory. Men are sometimes lazy. That's very true because sometimes men don't do the things which they should do. Instead they cram and pass it on the deadline. With this, men are also stubborn that makes them so hard headed and they don't follow instructions. My classmates even prioritize basketball more than cleaning the classroom. And I guess that concludes what the problems in men are.


tHe pRobLeM wiTh wOmEn aRe...

Women are so vain. Yes I admit women are vain. That's because they always face the mirror and make themselves beautiful. I am not against that beautification or improvement of oneself's physical appearance but as I've said don't overdo it, right? Women are also super sensitive. They tend toget angry easily over things and do not really understand the real situation. Women loves to spend so much with clothes, shoes and bags. I myself would love to shop for those things but still I have the control in myself and I know my limits. But honestly, women are like that. They spend beyond their limits just to fulfill their wants. Women are also childish. I myself am also childish. I tend to act that way because it feels good to be a child once again but sometimes when you over do it, it becomes really annoying. Women are also stubborn because they always want to do some things in their way which is not good because being stubborn can also lead to accidents and unfortunate events. Women also love to talk about other people's lives. Backbiting is bad as we all know and we should not to do that so as to prevent hurting other people's feelings. The thing that I really happened to hate about women is the period. I hate it so much because it sometimes stops me from doing the activities that I really like to do most of the time. Women also are close minded sometimes which makes them look so self centered. I guess we women should open our minds to new perspectives so that we'll grow more as a person. We women also takes other things for granted. Because sometimes we tend to be self centered we sometimes take things for granted. We only think about ourselves and do not think about things that may affect us in the future. And lastly, women also become so fashionista that they become so over acting to look at. Sometimes they wear necklaces like these and add another like that which makes the person really look so over acting with her style. Sometimes you don't even think of it as a style because they over do it.